Paris is a city that has captivated people for centuries. The architecture, the art, the food—everything feels drenched in romance and history. But beyond the postcard views and Instagrammable spots, Parisian daily life comes with its own set of quirks and habits that often surprise people moving here or visiting for the first time.
As someone living in Paris, I’ve noticed that it’s these small, often overlooked details that give the city its charm—and sometimes its mystery. Here are a few Parisian habits that tend to surprise (and sometimes confuse) newcomers.
1. Dipping Croissants in Coffee ☕🥐
One of the most delightful (and unexpected) habits is the French tendency to dip their croissant into their morning coffee—yes, even the buttery, flaky ones.
For many visitors, the idea of dipping something so perfectly crisp into a hot liquid feels almost sacrilegious. But for Parisians, it’s a simple, comforting ritual. You’ll see it especially with café crème or café au lait served in wide cups perfect for dunking.
The croissant absorbs the coffee and softens just enough to create a deliciously melt-in-the-mouth experience. Some even argue it’s the only proper way to start the day.
Pro tip: Try this with a plain croissant or a piece of baguette with butter and jam. It’s less common to dip pain au chocolat—though no one will stop you.
2. Standing at the Café Bar
When you walk into a Parisian café, you might notice that locals often stand at the counter instead of sitting at a table. Why? Because it’s cheaper and faster.
Having your coffee at the bar can cut the price nearly in half compared to sitting on the terrace. It’s part of the classic Parisian rhythm—quick espresso, a bit of conversation with the bartender, and off they go.
3. Saying Bonjour Everywhere
Politeness is deeply ingrained in Parisian culture. You’re expected to say “Bonjour” when entering a shop, a doctor’s office, or even a small waiting room. Failing to do so can come off as rude or dismissive.
It’s a small gesture, but it sets the tone for the interaction. Even a quick nod and a “Bonsoir” in the evening shows you respect the space and the people in it.
4. The Unspoken Rule of Public Silence
Parisian public transport is remarkably quiet. You’ll rarely hear loud conversations on the metro. People keep to themselves, often absorbed in their books, phones, or simply staring into space.
Newcomers might find this silence a bit stiff or cold at first, but it’s simply about respecting each other’s personal space in a city that’s always buzzing.
5. The Bread Ritual
If you’re sharing a meal, especially at home, don’t be surprised when people place pieces of bread directly on the tablecloth—no bread plate required. This casual, communal approach to bread is deeply French.
Also, bread isn’t just for the main course. It’s perfectly acceptable to use it to mop up the sauce on your plate. In fact, it’s encouraged.
6. Long Lunch Breaks (That They Actually Take)
Unlike the rushed desk lunches common elsewhere, many Parisians still take time for a proper sit-down lunch, often with colleagues or friends.
It’s not unusual for lunch breaks to last an hour or more, especially in smaller companies or outside of high-pressure industries. Eating well is seen as a necessary pause in the day, not just a refueling stop.
Parisian habits might initially surprise you, but they’re often small invitations to slow down, savor the moment, and enjoy life with quiet elegance.
So next time you’re in Paris, don’t hesitate: dip that croissant into your coffee, stand at the café bar, say “Bonjour” with confidence, and embrace the rhythm of the city. You might just find yourself blending in before you know it.
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