Paris often gets the reputation of being tough on tourists. You’ve probably heard stories of impatient waiters, icy metro riders, and locals who aren’t exactly thrilled to give directions. But here’s a little secret: Parisians actually appreciate tourists more than you’d think—especially when they do certain things.
While some tourist habits can be a little cringy, others genuinely warm the hearts of locals (even if we rarely admit it). Here are a few things that tourists do that Parisians secretly love.
1. When Tourists Try to Speak French 🇫🇷
Even if your accent is off or your grammar is shaky, making the effort to speak French always earns respect.
A simple “Bonjour” or “Excusez-moi” before switching to English can completely change how you’re treated. Locals don’t expect you to be fluent—they just appreciate the gesture. Honestly, it shows curiosity, respect, and a willingness to engage with the culture.
We’ve had lots and lots of experience to confirm that they find your mispronunciations charming, so DON’T BE SCARED TO TRY!!!!
2. When Tourists Get Genuinely Excited About Paris 🥰
Sometimes locals forget how beautiful Paris is. We’re busy rushing to work, annoyed by metro delays, or unimpressed by the Eiffel Tower that we’ve seen a thousand times.
But when a tourist lights up at the sight of the Seine, the sparkling Eiffel Tower, or a perfectly plated croissant, it reminds us why we love our city. That wide-eyed excitement is contagious, and deep down, we love seeing people fall for Paris the way we did.
3. When Tourists Respect Café Etiquette ☕️
Tourists who take their time at a café, savor their espresso, and embrace the slower pace of Parisian life? We love that. It shows that you’re not just ticking boxes—you’re trying to experience the city.
Also, when tourists remember to say “Bonjour” to the waiter and don’t rush through their meal, locals silently nod in approval.
4. When Tourists Are Curious Beyond the Landmarks 🗺️
Parisians secretly love when tourists venture outside the classic tourist zones. If you’re exploring neighborhood markets, quiet parks, local bakeries, or less-known museums like the Musée de la Vie Romantique, you’ll find locals more open, more friendly, and genuinely happy to share their city with you.
It tells us you’re not just here for a selfie—you’re here to connect with the real Paris.
5. When Tourists Fall in Love with the Simple Things 🥐
Tourists who get as excited about a perfect baguette, a tiny flower shop, or a street musician as they do about the Louvre? Locals love that.
Sometimes we forget how magical the small things are. Seeing visitors appreciate a morning croissant dipped in coffee (yes, we see you trying it!) or a sunset stroll along Canal Saint-Martin makes us quietly proud of our city’s everyday beauty.
6. When Tourists Ask for Local Recommendations
Parisians can seem reserved at first, but we actually love sharing our favorite spots—if you ask.
When tourists say, “Where would you go for dinner?” instead of “Where’s the most famous place?” it shows genuine interest. Locals are usually happy to share a hidden wine bar, a family-run bistro, or a park we love—if you approach us with curiosity and kindness.
Sure, Paris can be fast-paced, and yes, we complain a lot (it’s practically a national sport). But the truth is, many Parisians appreciate tourists—especially the ones who come with an open heart, curiosity, and a willingness to engage beyond the clichés.
So the next time you visit, don’t be afraid to stumble over your French, marvel at the Eiffel Tower, or ask us where we get our croissants.
We notice. And we secretly love it.
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